Wednesday, 10 September 2008

More Sorting Out

I sorted out my computer desk this morning :-) It feels so much nicer working at a tidy desk - I wish I'd done it earlier!!

This afternoon, when LMS had returned from the gym we sorted out Little Prince's walk in cupboard in his bedroom. He had a huge stack of toys that he has grown out of or never really played with, and as I was in a ruthless mood they all went to the charity shop :-) So now all the stuff we bought to decorate his new bedroom while we were in America, is put away in the cupboard, instead of cluttering up my bedroom :-)
We then had to go and pick Little Prince up from school, and I dropped off his 'dyspraxia equipment' (well a sensory cushion, special scissors and writing slope). School have ordered all of this equipment to help Little Prince, but it hasn't arrived yet, so I offered them the use of his own stuff that we use at home and his teacher jumped at the chance. She was telling me how well he has settled in, and how hard he tries to do the work like the other children do. She is very pleased with how he is doing, and of course I am very proud of him :-) We think he did get stressed by the visit from a drumming company this afternoon though, as he chewed the front of his shirt until it was drenched!
After we had collected Little Prince we drove over to the local car garage, to make a note of ages, makes and prices of the cars available. Mr Messy has got to seriously start looking for a car as LMS is going back to University soon, and taking her car (that she and her Dad currently share) with her! The garage we actually visited had nowhere near as many cars as shown in the picture lol.

Monday, 8 September 2008

Charity Shop Run :-)

I've just come back from a trip to the charity shop :-) I thought I was too late and that it would have already shut, but I had to drive past it to go to the petrol station anyway - and to my delight it was still open :-) So that's an empty boot waiting to be filled with more stuff to be got rid of :-) Me and Drama Teen are tackling more of her room tonight after her guitar lesson, so hopefully we will get enough sorted out to make another 'charity shop run' tomorrow :-) And Mr Messy is at home, so I can take our other car to the tip - its boot has been full of stuff to be thrown away for a few days, but we've not had the chance to take it yet!!

LMS has texted to say she is safely on her train on her way home from University Town. She is meeting her Dad at his train station, and they will come home together. Little Prince will be thrilled as he has missed her a LOT. I'm dreading her going back to University for her new term, it will be so hard on all of us again.

Having a break!

I dropped Little Prince off at school this morning, and he was just as excited and eager to go in as he was last week :-) I'd had my fingers crossed all weekend that he would still be happy to go :-) One of his friends cried, he had a sore throat and didn't feel himself, poor lad :-(

Today has been my first chance to sort out Little Prince's toys, with him not around I can be more ruthless!! So more bags are ready for the charity shop and the tip :-) I can't believe how much rubbish I found buried in his toybox!!! So now I'm having a break - not having a KitKat though lol.

Sunday, 7 September 2008

Today's Blurb

LMS went from Baby Sis's house to her University Town today, to pick up her keys to the house she and her friend's are renting this year. Apparently is cold and she got a surprise present - a water bill in her name that has to be paid in advance!! Luckily all her friends are there picking up their keys and they have worked out how much each of them owes so she can sort that out.

This morning Mr Messy and Drama Teen went to one of Mr Messy's friend's to photograph their baby. I've seen the photos and they are gorgeous :-) Me and Little Prince had a lazy sort of day (I'm still recovering from yesterday's train journeys!!), played some Play Doh, cuddled up and watched tv and read some books.

When Mr Messy and Drama Teen got home we all went out to Pizza Hut for tea, as I was too tired to cook. Little Prince really enjoyed chosing what to put on his ice cream factory dessert :-) And unlike when the girls were younger, he actually ate it all up!!

Later on when he was in bed me and Drama Teen got some more of her bedroom sorted out. More bags loaded into the car ready to take to either the tip or the charity shop. Tomorrow we start tackling the bookcases!! Well if she doesn't have too much homework, as that has to take priority lol. I think at the moment Drama Teen would rather do hours of homework than any more sorting out!! But it was her idea to do this to her room, and it will be much easier to keep tidy once she has less stuff in there!!

Yesterday's Nightmare!!

Yesterday started at 5am and ended after midnight!! The train journey there, which should have taken about 3 hours took FIVE!! And the one coming home took SIX - three of which we had to stand up!!! That's what happens when you try and cram three or four train's worth of people onto one train!!! Drama Teen missed the morning of her "Beauty Inside and Out Day" but enjoyed the afternoon, which included the pampering by beauticians session. She also met a friend from her Summer Camp, and had a great time chatting to her. I spent the few hours I had in Edinburgh wandering round the fab shops on Princes Street, I didn't buy much (only a few books) as I'd been shopping the day before with my friend. But it was nice to window shop :-)

Once Drama Teen had finished her "Beauty Day" we ate a quick fast food meal, before heading for the station. After the delayed journey that morning, we were wondering if we would actually get home, and got to the station in plenty of time. All trains heading to Edinburgh from home's direction were severely delayed or cancelled!! Not a great start!! We eventually found that there was only one option to get home, and we would have to wait 3/4s of an hour for that train. There was nowhere to sit and wait where we could see the announcement boards, so that we would know what platform to use, so we stood and waited!! As soon as the platform was shown we rushed there, only to find a few hundred other people already knew and were massed on the platform. It wasn't long before the train pulled in, I made Drama Teen hold onto me and we pushed our way onto the train together. There were no seats left, apart from in First Class - which even in these sort of circumstances the train company would not let you sit in unless you paid a hefty supplement!! We ended up standing in the luggage bit of one carriage all the way to Newcastle. Luckily enough people left the train in Newcastle that we were able to get seats together - we could have sat down seperately earlier, but Drama Teen was adamant that she wouldn't sit next to a stranger! My poor aching back and feet really appreciated that seat :-) We got chatting to a group of people from Down South who had just been on a team building exercise on one of the Scottish Islands, which sounded like an episode of "I'm a Celebrity" complete with eating bugs and sleeping in the open!! Although I think I would have prefered the Australian jungle to the midge infested island they were on!!

LMS kept us up to date as to what her, Mr Messy and Little Prince were up to at the family wedding! Little Prince was good during the long service, playing on his GameBoy with the sound turned off. But he didn't cope at all with the sit down reception meal!! There was nowhere for him to run off some energy and he couldn't manage to sit still through the formal dinner, and had LMS in tears at one point :-( They left early!! LMS was dropped off with Baby Sis, as she was going to her Uni Town to pick up her keys to the house she and her friend's are renting this year, and she was half way there and it would have been silly to come home again. Mr Messy and Little Prince then drove home, and they arrived home before we even reached Newcastle!! Despite having set off waaaay after we did!!!

By the time we eventually reached our destination I was ready to cry!! And I still had half an hour's drive to go :-( Drama Teen chatted to me, and kept me awake during the drive and we finally got home after midnight this morning!! What a day!!!!!!

Saturday, 6 September 2008

I'm on the train!!!!

Me and Drama Teen are off to Edinburgh today for a Changing Faces "Beauty Inside and Out" day (self esteem work and pampering session for teenage girls). And how sad is this - I'm blogging on the train!!!! Our train was delayed and in the end they cancelled a different train, made the disgruntled original passengers get off and changed it into our train!! But at least we are on our way now, and Drama Teen seems to have stopped whinging about being tired for the moment!

Friday, 5 September 2008

Deep Thoughts from Little Prince

I'm not sure what set him off, but Little Prince has been asking why he has three mummies (Tummy Mummy, Foster Mummy and Me). He named all his school friends and pointed out that they all live with their Tummy Mummies and that its not fair that he doesn't. He says he misses her and it makes him sad not to live with her, and that all babies should stay with their Tummy Mummies. Poor little thing, adoption is such a HUGE concept for a child to grasp. He's totally right all babies SHOULD be able to stay with their Tummy Mummies and in an ideal world he wouldn't have been seperated from his Tummy Mummy and would have been able to grow up safe in her care. I can't take away the hurt and pain this is causing him, but I can listen and hug him when he wants to talk about it. Big big hugs Little Prince ((((((((((()))))))))))

OUR ETHIOPIAN ADOPTION TIMELINE


25th May 2009 - See New Child again & Court Date

23rd May 2009 - Fly back to Ethiopia

26th March 2009 - Fly to Ethiopia :-)

3rd March 2009 - Dossier Arrived at Orphanage

26th February 2009 - Dossier sent to Ethiopia

22nd December 2008 - Dossier back at DCSF

28th November 2008 - Certificate of Eligibility ISSUED

6th October 2008 - PASSED Approval Panel

7th July 2008 - Homestudy Update Started

28th Feb 2008 - Told LA we wished to change country

OUR CHINA ADOPTION TIMELINE

Formally withdrew from the China Adoption Programme 17th July 2008

LID (Logged in Date) with CCAA 16th August 2007

Documents to China 10th August 2007

Passed Approval Panel 5th March 2007

Homestudy started 6th June 2006

First Contact with our LA 1st Jan 2006