Thursday 6 December 2007

Big plans!!!!

As you may have noticed from the dearth of posts lately, I have been a bit distracted!! Not only by the celebrities in the Jungle either!! Me and Mr Messy have come to the conclusion that if referrals from China continue at the pace they have been coming (2 months 17 days worth of LIDs in the WHOLE of 2007) we will not be in a position to adopt when our turn finally comes round. We have talked over all different sorts of scenarios - considering our family complete with our three gorgeous children or applying to adopt domestically again or seeing if we can change to an expedited, direct Special Needs match from the CCAA. After many months of talking we decided on the SNs route, and I have been diligently researching this for ages now. A friend in America sent her agencies SNs list of conditions, and we have also been considering what we can and can't deal with on that list. We have now, just about, come up with a very restricted list of SNs we can consider and feel would fit into our family set up. After ensuring that the CCAA would accept an application for an expedited SN adoption from the UK, we contacted our Local Authority. To my utter surprise and delight, Team Leader was very positive and encouraging and we have arranged a meeting for me, Mr Messy and her for a week on Friday. I have talked to the DCSF and they say we need a homestudy addendum and written confirmation from the LA saying they support this change - the DCSF will then add their own letter of support and forward everything to the CCAA on our behalf. It sounds so simple when laid out like that - but I am sure that just like every other step in our adoption journey, it will be long winded and frustrating. But I am determined that we will get through this, and give this application our best shot. The CCAA might turn around and say "no" but at least we will have tried our best. Hold on MeiMei - mummy and daddy are coming....

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

You have come out! I hope things go smoothly for you.

Dont forget to get BLAS or someone else to confirm that you are being expedited when you get your paperwork to the CCAA. You need to get into the right pile!

Keeping everything crossed for you XX Love S

Janet said...

lol - I'm not very good at secrets and hiding things :-)
I've already asked C&J to oversee our papers, and we joined BLAS a while ago, so I can ask them too - thank you for the tip :-)
Its getting quite scarily real now!!!
Love
Janet
xxx

Anonymous said...

Mum, remember - It'll be fiiiine! :)

And well done for finally coming out! lol

LMS
xxx

Whatshername's Mummy said...

Good news, brave but sensible decisions, congratulations!
Kate
x

monicaijordi said...

Felicidades familia !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Un abrazo desde Catalunya.

Hello! We are a family of Spain that we have made several videos on the adoption of second daughter which we want to share with you. Thank you very much!

http://es.youtube.com/profile_videos?user=monicaijordi&p=v

Janet said...

Thank you Kate, that means a lot to me :-)
Love and hugs to you and Alice
Janet
xxxx


OUR ETHIOPIAN ADOPTION TIMELINE


25th May 2009 - See New Child again & Court Date

23rd May 2009 - Fly back to Ethiopia

26th March 2009 - Fly to Ethiopia :-)

3rd March 2009 - Dossier Arrived at Orphanage

26th February 2009 - Dossier sent to Ethiopia

22nd December 2008 - Dossier back at DCSF

28th November 2008 - Certificate of Eligibility ISSUED

6th October 2008 - PASSED Approval Panel

7th July 2008 - Homestudy Update Started

28th Feb 2008 - Told LA we wished to change country

OUR CHINA ADOPTION TIMELINE

Formally withdrew from the China Adoption Programme 17th July 2008

LID (Logged in Date) with CCAA 16th August 2007

Documents to China 10th August 2007

Passed Approval Panel 5th March 2007

Homestudy started 6th June 2006

First Contact with our LA 1st Jan 2006