Wednesday, 18 February 2009

No news yet!!!

We've just been away overnight, and I was so hoping to come home to an email from DCSF with the magical dossier package dimensions so that I could arrange for them to be shipped to Addis. But it was not to be :-( I even had Mr Messy faffing around on his iPhone to remotely check the webmail last night when we were away lol. Well its only Wednesday so there's another couple of days before this week is finished!!

We were away collecting Drama Teen from her ski camp and then driving her over to LMS's University to stay with LMS until weekend. Drama Teen was very tired and quiet in the car after we picked her up, and it turns out not only was she tired she was also waiting for a boy from camp to get in touch! We had booked ourselves into a hotel in University Town, and were all going to eat together in the hotel restaurant. We got checked in and swapped our stuff into Drama Teens huge suitcase and got her to put everything she needed into our small, pull along suitcase, so that it would be easier for her and LMS to bring her stuff back on the train at weekend. By this time LMS had arrived and we made our way over to the restaurant. Our table was a huge one with loads more chairs than we needed, and Little Prince dived straight to the head of the table chair, me and LMS sat either side of him and Drama Teen and Mr Messy went to the other end of the table! I was very upset by this, and despite me telling them this they refused to move. So it was a pretty uncomfortable meal :-( Once back in our room Little Prince insisted that LMS put him to bed, and then sobbed when her and Drama Teen went off to her University rooms :-( I tried to get him settled, but he wasn't having it, then Mr Messy tried to get him settled and he had as much luck as me. We then spent a frustrating hour or so telling Little Prince to settle down, which he normally can do very easily, but as he'd napped earlier in the car he was having none of it! By about 10.30pm we gave up, got in bed and turned out all the lights, which is what finally got Little Prince to go to sleep!

We had to be up and out early in the morning to get back home in time for me to go to an appointment with the Citizen's Advice Bureau who were going to assist me in filling in the application forms for Little Prince to receive Disability Living Allowance. Despite our cross country marathon drive we were only 10 minutes late for the appointment, and that was because of roadworks just 5 mins from the Bureau's offices! Not bad :-) It was extremely depressing filling the form in, and going through all the different areas and highlighting Little Prince's difficulties. But the advisor thinks we have made a pretty good case for getting the Allowance and I've got to let him know how we get on. I've pretty much decided I'm going to use the money to pay for a part time nanny (with experience of SNs), so that me and Mr Messy can have a night out every now and again. Little Prince needs such a high level of care and supervision I am not at all comfortable in letting the local teenage babysitters look after him and need someone with more experience and authority!

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OUR ETHIOPIAN ADOPTION TIMELINE


25th May 2009 - See New Child again & Court Date

23rd May 2009 - Fly back to Ethiopia

26th March 2009 - Fly to Ethiopia :-)

3rd March 2009 - Dossier Arrived at Orphanage

26th February 2009 - Dossier sent to Ethiopia

22nd December 2008 - Dossier back at DCSF

28th November 2008 - Certificate of Eligibility ISSUED

6th October 2008 - PASSED Approval Panel

7th July 2008 - Homestudy Update Started

28th Feb 2008 - Told LA we wished to change country

OUR CHINA ADOPTION TIMELINE

Formally withdrew from the China Adoption Programme 17th July 2008

LID (Logged in Date) with CCAA 16th August 2007

Documents to China 10th August 2007

Passed Approval Panel 5th March 2007

Homestudy started 6th June 2006

First Contact with our LA 1st Jan 2006