Friday, 30 May 2008

Yep its yet another catch up post!!

Thursday - LMS came home from Uni. Well only until Sunday as she is out at a party with friends from college on Saturday night, and at a BBQ at Uni on Tuesday night so has to go back again. She is then coming home for the Summer next Thursday. Little Prince is confused and grumpy, he wants his sister to come home and STAY home and isn't very happy that she is going away again, even though its only for a few days. He was very impressed that he got to stay up late and go with Daddy to the station to pick LMS up, and insisted that she take him to bed once they were home. I feel redundant when LMS is here!! During the morning Mr Messy and Drama Teen both went to have their eyes tested, Drama Teen chose some new designer frames and looks very good in them. However, the optician was quite worried about the changes to Mr Messy's eyes, she has recommended that he go and be tested for diabetes (!!!) before coming back next week to have his eyes re-tested. He will also have to have his pupils dilated so that she can photograph the backs of his eyes better, his pupils are too small to do it properly without the dilation. He is NOT going to like the effects of his pupils being dilated!! I had it done a few years ago and the slightest bit of light makes your eyes really hurt!!
Friday - Little Prince woke up at 2.30am!!! To tell me that his curtains weren't shut right!! Aaaargh!!! I 'corrected' the curtains and went back to bed and lay there for almost an hour listening to Little Prince wriggling and playing - when he started to bellow Happy Birthday to Me I gave up and went and told him to go back to sleep. He was quite surprised to hear it was still stupid o'clock and he should be asleep, but luckily agreed to try and sleep again! I was then woken up at just after 6am by Mr Messy wanting to know if I'd seen his wallet!!! Why do my whole family think I know where everything they have ever owned is??? I went downstairs and tried to look for the missing wallet, but Mr Messy found it in one of the shopping bags from his trip to town yesterday. I went to bed, again, and got a few more hours sleep before being woken by a hungry Little Prince. After lunch me, LMS and Little Prince went to town to buy Little Prince some new PE pumps and for LMS to hand out her CV to various shops to see if she can get a Summer job. We then went to the small out of town retail park to hand out more CVs. While LMS was visiting the other shops me and Little Prince went to Toys R Us for a look round, and managed to find some more Disney Cars he hasn't got - a minor miracle as he has that many of them!! LMS joined us half way round the shop after completing her CV Mission. When we were in the Babies R Us section I noticed they had the cot that I like, and also that it was massively reduced as it has now been discontinued! Guess what?? I bought it!!! The sales person then knocked some more money off as it was the shop display model and had a few scuffs and knocks on it, so I got a HUGE bargain and the exact cot I've been coveting :-) My next mission is to see if I can find the matching dresser anywhere. I know I'll have to store them for ages, but at least I will have the ones I want :-) Mr Messy thinks I've flipped completely, but when I told him how much I'd saved he forgave me lol
UPDATE - I got the changing unit too :-)
This evening LMS babysat so that me and Mr Messy could go to the cinema to see the latest Indiana Jones movie. It was FANTASTIC :-) Lots of action and humour and references to the previous films. We both really enjoyed it :-)

Wednesday, 28 May 2008

Car Boot Sale

I love a good bargain, so when my friend suggested taking the kids to a local Car Boot Sale I jumped at the chance. We had a bit of a struggle getting three car seats in my car, but managed it in the end! Unfortunately the Car Boot Sale was a bit of a disappointment, not many people had turned out (could have been the iffy weather this morning or could be because of school holidays) and the ones who had seemed to be mainly professional Car Booters rather than ordinary folk. I did manage to find some brand new Kipper the Dog books for Little Prince, and paid over the odds for a Power Ranger Megazord (don't ask!!) figure he wanted, so he was happy :-) We then drove to a nearby pub for lunch, but as they had a special offer on the carvery it was packed out, so instead we drove to the nearest town and had lunch in a cafe there. We then mooched around the shops and bought a few bits and bobs. I tried to get Little Prince some new school pumps, but as he was wearing his thick sports socks I couldn't gauge the size properly. I'll try again tomorrow and make sure he is wearing his thinner school socks. We then had a quick whizz round the supermarket before heading off home again. Little Prince was almost in tears once we'd dropped my friend and her girls off, as he hadn't given his Girlfriend a goodbye hug - awww bless :-) We arrived home just as my ironing was being delivered, so perfect timing :-) Later on when Mr Messy arrived home from work he and I tipped the house upside down looking for the car insurance - can't find it anywhere and the car needs taxing on Saturday DARN!! I ended up ringing the insurance company to ask them to send us another certificate, fingers crossed it will be here in time!!!

Tuesday, 27 May 2008

Bank Holiday Weekend

Hope everyone had lovely weather for the Bank Holiday :-) We had our HOST family to stay from Friday evening until early Sunday morning, so we had a busy weekend. We took the family to the local art gallery, which always has a craft area during school holidays and after we'd eaten our lunch in the gallery cafe we spent quite a while helping the children with their crafts. Then we managed to fit in a visit to our Pond-Friends, without any incidents at all!! Well apart from Little Prince managing to trap his fingers in the bathroom door while playing hide and seek with the children, he cried so much I thought he must have broken them, but once he calmed down there seemed to be no lasting damage, not even a bruise!! Our friends daughter took us down to her horse and let the HOST family's daughter ride round on her (she has always wanted to ride a horse and her parents didn't know where to look for riding lessons near their university). I don't think I've ever seen a child grin so widely :-) Little Prince then wanted a turn and he loved it too, he has decided he is a cowboy now. He was quite miffed that our friend's daughter wouldn't let the horse run!!! We've promised to find out about riding lessons for him, so that he can learn how to ride properly and then he would be able to go faster! That seemed to calm him down. As usual our friend's put on a lovely feast for a (semi) traditional English Tea - the ribs for Little Prince weren't traditional, but they kept him happy :-) He also liked the Taiwanese Pearls (black tapioca in honey and milk) prepared by the HOST family mum. I'm so glad he is an adventurous eater, unlike his mum and sisters!!

When we got back from our friends, the children all wanted to play on the Wii again, it would be their only chance as their mum says they won't be allowed one once they are home in Taiwan as they will have to study too hard to play :-( Little Prince had fallen asleep in the car on the way home, so he was fast asleep in bed - which did lead to less arguing as we only have two Wii-motes! Mr Messy and Drama Teen went off to the supermarket to buy provisions for the Sunday Roast, however, while they were out the family announced they would be leaving at 10am as the dad had to do lots of studying. We were a bit surprised by this as most students stay until mid afternoon, and it meant that they wouldn't be joining us for Sunday Dinner. Mr Messy did make them a traditional English breakfast in the morning though, and they seemed to enjoy that very much. then it was a bit of a rush getting their picture taken with the children to put in our HOST Visitors Book and getting all their things packed in their car. Little Prince was very upset to see them go as he had had a whale of a time playing with the children :-( He is so much younger than his sisters and they don't always want to play with him, and when he isn't at school he misses having children his own age around him.

On Monday the weather was ok-ish, cloudy and windy but not raining, so we decided we would chance a trip to the beach. It was even windier and colder on the coast, but we spent a bracing half an hour walking along the beach collecting shells and Little Prince digging for Pirate Treasure. Then we visited a nearby animal sanctury, which was more like a mini zoo, with all sorts of animals to see. The onsite cafe was a lovely break from the wind and tasty too, especially the scones piled high with cream yum yum :-) We thought after all his running round that Little Prince would fall asleep on the way home, but instead it was Fraulein who snoozed most of the way!! We tease her that she must be part cat as she spends most of her life asleep!! We stopped off for tea at a KFC as neither me nor Mr Messy felt like cooking when we got home. Little Prince was impressed by this choice, but Fraulein refused to eat and only had a drink saying she couldn't eat two large meals in one day!!

We had left Drama Teen at home with three friends from Stagecoach, well two friends and her Young Man. They spent some time walking round the village, not playing out as they are MUCH too old to do that lol. And Drama Teen even managed to cook them all some lunch, without destroying the kitchen in the process!! In the evening once all her friends had been picked up, the Young Man being the last one to be picked up, she seemed very quiet and subdued. Mr Messy jokingly asked her if he had dumped her, she promptly burst into tears and said he had :-( Apparently Young Man feels that only seeing each other once a week is too hard and that they should split up, and just be friends. She seemed a bit better later in the evening but still quiet, poor little lamb.

Friday, 23 May 2008

Tidying up!

I know its not like me at all lol! But we've got some more HOST students coming this evening, this time its a whole family - Mum, Dad (the one who is studying) and two children, from Taiwan. Our house seems to have elastic sides so hopefully we can squeeze them all in :-) One of the children is interested in trying horse riding, so we are visiting our Fish Pond-Friends, as their youngest has her own horse. I just hope Little Prince manages to behave this time, or if not that his mischief isn't quite as spectacular as last time!!
And during my cleaning, tidying, dusting spree I am also dealing with the very real proof that adverts do indeed influence children!! Have you seen the nPower advert with the woman that goes round the house throwing green paint everywhere?? Something to do with "turning the world green"?? Well Little Prince apparently saw this advert and decided to try his hand at turning his world "yoghurty"!!! I used a Frube (squeezy tube yoghurt) to spray our lounge "yoghurty" when asked about this he even quoted the line from the advert to explain what he'd been doing!!! Aaaaaaargh!!!!!

Thursday, 22 May 2008

Swimming Success

Little Prince behaved BEAUTIFULLY at swimming yesterday :-) I reminded him before his lesson that me and his teacher had agreed that if he didn't behave (crashing into the other pupils or constant ducking under water and not listening to the teacher) he would have to come out of the pool and go home. He solemnly nodded his head, and I was wondering if it was going in one ear and out the other - but no, he wasn't an angel (I don't think he ever could be) but he tried very very hard to behave nicely and do as he was told :-) I am so proud of him :-)

Little Prince-isms

Little Prince told me incredulously yesterday that when he gets to be a growed up man and a Daddy that his Daddy will be a Grandad. I smiled and agreed and said that would mean I would be a Grandma, Little Prince was disgusted with this idea "NO! You'll be MY mummy!!" was the reply lol.

He has been observing his sisters with their snazzy laptop computers and now wants to know when will he have a computer that he can walk round with?? I've told him not for a very very long time, until he is very very grown up!! I don't want laptops to go pond dipping too!!

The Bricks are HERE!!!!

YEAH!!! Finally!!! It took the man with the crane truck contraption almost an hour to get five pallets of bricks onto our drive, but they are HERE!!!! Our drive is between our house and the cottage next door, and it also has the telephone line for next door going fairly low across it, so it was quite a tricky delivery job - but the man managed it. My builder and his labourer are coming on Saturday to start and I will finally have my private garden back :-) It might even inspire me into getting the lawn mowed, and weeding the flower beds!!

OUR ETHIOPIAN ADOPTION TIMELINE


25th May 2009 - See New Child again & Court Date

23rd May 2009 - Fly back to Ethiopia

26th March 2009 - Fly to Ethiopia :-)

3rd March 2009 - Dossier Arrived at Orphanage

26th February 2009 - Dossier sent to Ethiopia

22nd December 2008 - Dossier back at DCSF

28th November 2008 - Certificate of Eligibility ISSUED

6th October 2008 - PASSED Approval Panel

7th July 2008 - Homestudy Update Started

28th Feb 2008 - Told LA we wished to change country

OUR CHINA ADOPTION TIMELINE

Formally withdrew from the China Adoption Programme 17th July 2008

LID (Logged in Date) with CCAA 16th August 2007

Documents to China 10th August 2007

Passed Approval Panel 5th March 2007

Homestudy started 6th June 2006

First Contact with our LA 1st Jan 2006